Ask Sassy Snowflake: What to Wear

Dear Sassy Snowflake,

I have a ton of holiday events coming up (including the big day itself!) and I never know what to wear! Can you help?

Thanks,

Needing Clothes Advice

Dear Needing Clothes Advice

You didn't mention what types of events you're attending or if attire was listed in the invitation (although, sometimes that just makes your choices more confusing!), but hopefully these tips may help you!

• I don't believe that its better to either overdress or underdress for an event. Both make me feel equally uncomfortable! But I do think its easier to dress down nicer clothes than it is to dress up casual clothes. Black pants can work almost anywhere and are my go-to during the season.
• Layering is your best bet. You can wear a sparkly top, covered up by a sweater or a jacket. If an event is more conservative, stay buttoned up; if its more festive and dressy, wear the top alone. Scarves also come in handy for this purpose too.
• Do you feel comfortable calling your host and asking what you should wear? Or talk to other guests to see what they are wearing? There is safety in numbers- and they are probably just as confused as you!
• You can alway stick with a conservative outfit (think black pants and sweater or simple dress with tights) and then dress it up with jewelry. Dangly earrings or a big necklace will dress up an outfit (and if you feel out of place wearing them, you can always slip them into your purse!).
• Keep in mind that a lot of holiday events require you to stand- so choose your footwear with care!
• For Christmas itself, I always think it pays to be comfortable. You will be sitting, standing, eating, drinking, etc. But you want to look nice too in order to celebrate the day (and look good in pictures!). I have black pants (again!) that have some stretch to them that I love. I know everyone suggests sweaters, but they do so for a reason! They look nice and keep you warm!

I hope this helps! If others have any additional suggestions, please share!

Sassy