October 31, 2009
Poll: Opening Presents - Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?
October 30, 2009
Ask Sassy Snowflake: Gift for the Boss?
- First, check your employee handbook. In many workplaces, giving gifts to supervisors is not allowed or the gifts must be under a certain dollar amount. I know this is the case at my job! If your workplace doesn't have a policy, you can take the lead and encourage one. I think many co-workers would be grateful to have a clear policy outlining what they can't and can do.
- If a comprehensive policy doesn't fly in your workplace, another idea is to suggest alternatives to gifts. Perhaps your team can host a potluck instead of buying presents. Or perhaps your boss would allow an afternoon of volunteering.
- You mention you aren't particularly close to your boss. In that respect, don't feel obligated to buy a gift. Remember, a gift is a gift- not a requirement! If you were close to your boss, give a gift based on your friendship, not on her role as your boss.
- See if you can discreetly check the mood of your co-workers. Perhaps they are just as confused about whether or not to give a gift, thus providing an opportunity for everyone to contribute to one office-wide present. This helps relieve the pressure of finding a gift thats "good enough" and no one in the office is left out for not giving a separate gift.
- And finally, whether you give a gift or not, a holiday card is always a nice gesture!
October 29, 2009
Taste Test - Swiss Miss Hot Chocolate
- MILK CHOCOLATE: This flavor was our least favorite. It didn't have a lot of chocolate flavor and wasn't as rich as the other two options.
- RICH CHOCOLATE: This version definitely had the most chocolate flavor. It was my favorite!
- MILK CHOCOLATE WITH MARSHMALLOWS: My friend thought this was the best of the three, even when liking the regular Milk Chocolate the least. I think it all comes down to the marshmallows. I love when they melt and you have the foamy topping.
October 28, 2009
Christmas Store Review - Athens, Greece
So is the Christmas-store phenonmenon only a U.S. thing? I can recall finding a Christmas-only store in Germany- but it was on a U.S. military base. What have been your experiences?
October 27, 2009
Current Christmas Crooners
- I already mentioned I love Diana Krall. Her album, "Christmas Songs," was released in 2005 and is a jazzy take on Christmas classics. Very relaxing to listen to and great background music for a holiday cocktail party.
- Michael Buble released five songs on his "Let It Snow" CD in 2004. Michael has a super-smooth voice and his songs are festive and fun. Also jazzy, but more upbeat than Diana Krall.
- The best example I can think of is Sarah McLachlan in her 2006 album, "Wintersong." While she records previously written songs, she also includes some new (and popular!) recordings, including "River." My personal favorite, though, is "Song for a Winter's Night." Sarah has such a great voice, and the lyrics and melody perfectly re-create a longing, holiday song.
- Maybe a little past the cut-off point to be "recent", but I still love Harry Connick, Jr.'s, song, "When My Heart Finds Christmas" from his 1993 album of the same name.
October 26, 2009
Drink Recipe: Hot Chocolate with Peppermint Schnapps
When I was in college, my roommates and I would always have “hot chocolate dates.” It would give us time to relax and catch up after running around all day.

Our favorite recipe added cinnamon schnapps to the hot chocolate. All you need is a packet of your favorite hot chocolate, a shot glass of peppermint schnapps, and hot water (or milk, if that’s how you like your hot chocolate). It helps to add the
schnapps to the packet of hot chocolate first and then stir. Its just enough liquid that you can dissolve the powder, but not enough liquid that its splashing over the sides. Then top with the hot water (and whipped cream!). Very yummy and minty! Perfect for the holidays and cold weather. I know there are a lot of other mixers out there that you can use to add to hot chocolate, but this has always been my favorite.
Do you like the recipe for hot chocolate? What other mixers do you like to add to your hot chocolate?
October 25, 2009
Holiday Travel Tips – Driving
- Have a good road map in the car. Not just so you get where you are going, but its super helpful for passengers. Being able to follow along as you pass exits and cities and view how much farther you have to sit does wonders for eliminating boredom.
- Play games in the car. One of my favorites is the license plate game- keeping track of how many different states you see on fellow cars and trucks. Another game that my parents created which I loved is a version of bingo. Each passenger gets a list of various objects you may see from the car (i.e. a barn). Whomever sees all their items first wins.
- Know an alternate route. In busy areas, sometimes the most direct route isn’t the fastest. If you know alternatives, you can always bail out if your primary route is too slow. And really, on heavily trafficked routes, this is the only alternative unless you are willing to drive super late or super early.
- If you are driving a long way or if the drive has been frustrating, switch drivers if possible. You don’t want the driver to be cranky upon arrival. Plus, the break allows the driver to refresh, making your trip much more safe.
- Have a good supply of Christmas music ready and available!
October 24, 2009
Holiday Travel Tips - Flying
- Book flights as early as you can. The longer you wait, the more prices will increase. But make sure to wait until your plans and dates are solid. You’ll pay a ridiculous amount through the airlines if you want to change your travel. Likewise, don’t book super-tight connections. Winter travel often means de-icing airplanes, which can add anywhere from 15-45 minutes to your flight.
- Get to the airport early. Even if you are a seasoned traveler, many of your fellow passengers are not, which is going to add time to your trip. Plus, the sheer number of people traveling during this time also adds time. And the last thing you want to do is miss your flight. If you get to your gate super early, plan on eating or drinking or shopping. Just relax and enjoy, knowing you are on time and going to celebrate the holidays soon.
- Just go ahead and check your bags. Trust me, the $15 is worth it when the other alternative is trying to find overhead bin space on a packed flight. And then you don’t need to worry about only packing liquids under 3 ounces in a plastic bag. THIS RULE IS STILL IN EFFECT! I am still amazed, years since taking effect, people still forget or have no clue such a rule exists. But make sure to keep your claim ticket- you will want it if your bags are lost or delayed.
- WEAR SOCKS! Nothing is ickier than having to take your shoes off and not wearing socks. I don’t want to know what is on the airport floor. And, after you go through security, once your bags go through security, don’t stand there trying to put on your shoes and belt and put everything back in your purse or pockets. Most airports have benches and seats right after security- take your things there to get re-situated. Its more comfortable for you, and keeps the line behind you moving.
- Have the 1-800 number for your airline with you. So many times, my flight has been cancelled and the line to re-book is miles long. If you have the airline number, you can call them while in line. I guarantee you will be on hold for a while (probably even a long while) but every single time, I have talked to an operator before I ever got near the front of the line.
October 23, 2009
Food Recipe: Cherry Coffeecake

- 1 cup margarine
- 1 ¾ cups sugar
- 4 eggs
- 1 tsp vanilla
- 3 cups flour
- 1 ½ tsp baking soda
- ½ tsp salt
- 1 can cherry pie filling
- Powdered sugar
- Milk
October 22, 2009
Christmas Store Review - The Golden Goose, Occoquan, VA
My most recent Christmas store excursion was to the Golden Goose in Occoquan, VA. Here are my thoughts and review!- A "guy" tree, filled with ornaments aimed at men, including hunting, fishing, beer, and sports
- In addition to the requisite wine tree was an alcohol tree with an extensive variety of ornaments, including a bottle of "North Pole Whiskey"
- A farming tree, with ornaments of tractors, corn, 4H, and farm animals
- A teacher tree, with decorations of school busses, blackboards, and apples
- A "USA" tree, with flags, military figures, and stars
- A crafts tree, with ornaments reflecting knitting, scrapbooking, and other arts and crafts
ODDS AND ENDS: The store is much bigger than it appears. Rooms are tacked on to rooms making the store quite sizable. The store is definitely more traditional feeling- not as modern or fun as 3 French Hens or the Christmas Attic. The pathways through the store feel pretty large, but there were a few times where I had to wait for other customers to move out of a pathway or doorway before I could continue my shopping. Finally, you can tell the store is local- all price tags are hand written and even your receipt is filled out by an employee. But the price tags themselves are very reasonable- all the more reason to buy more!October 21, 2009
Ask Sassy Snowflake: Christmas Card Lists
- Its just a card. If you aren't sure whether or not to include someone on your list, just go ahead and send them one. It doesn't cost much in time or money and will probably brighten their day. If you have saved and stored someone's address, why not use that address to send a Christmas card? Honestly, if you don't send a card during the holidays, I am not sure you will use any other opportunity during the year to send another letter or card, so use that address now!
- With that said, I do keep two lists of people to whom I am sending cards. The first list is those people who I genuinely want to reach out to and will include a long, hand-written note in their card (don't worry, a post on those infamous holiday newsletters is forthcoming!). The second list is those whom with I don't want to lose contact, but don't want/need to invest as much time into a letter. They simply receive a card with a greeting and signed with my name. Obviously, the first list is shorter, but penning those cards takes much more time.
- I write my cards during November and send them out soon after Thanksgiving. Its inevitable that you will receive cards from people to whom you didn't send cards- in those cases, definitely quickly write out a card and return the courtesy. Its also inevitable that you will send cards to people who will not send one in return- in those cases, don't dwell! An important point of this response is that, in the whole scheme of things, holiday cards aren't that important.
- I know many people do not send cards anymore. Mostly because as the holidays approach, time becomes a commodity, and the next thing you know its Christmas and have never had a chance to write and address cards. Don't let that be an excuse!!! If anything, start NOW on your cards (Mom, I am talking to you!)! You can have your cards prepared as early as July, but if you don't send them until November or December, no one will know! And wouldn't it be depressing if everyone stopped sending Christmas cards and our mailboxes were empty?
- I know the world is doing so much more via the web and computers nowadays (like checking out my website!) but electronic holiday cards are not a substitute. For the amount of time it takes to find a card, type in a message and an email address, and click "Send," you could have signed your name to a real card, addressed and stamped it, and placed it in the mail. I know the price of stamps have increased exponentially lately, but how much are you spending a month on your internet service? Or on your Christmas decorations or gifts? Forty-four cents is not a lot to send a piece of paper across the country.
- Finally, one of my favorite tips: we know we will send Christmas cards every year. Take advantage of the after-Christmas sales to buy a few packs of Christmas cards. You can get a lot of cards for super-cheap and will have the cards available when you start writing and addressing them in August!
October 20, 2009
Drink Recipe: Whiskey Sour Slush
- 1 can frozen lemonade
- 1 can frozen orange juice
- ½ cup lemon juice
- 2 liter bottle 7-up (or diet 7-up! Save a few calories!)
- 1 ½ cup bourbon

October 19, 2009
Favorite Christmas TV Specials
- A Garfield Christmas Special: I even have this special on DVD at home. I love how earnest Odie is when he is building Garfield's gift! So sweet and thoughtful! And when Jon and his family is singing- great stuff! The main downside- the voice of Garfield can really grate on my nerves...
- California Raisins Christmas: This used to ALWAYS be on TV when I was growing up, but I haven't seen it on recently. I did some searching, though, and found a great clip on YouTube. It brings back memories! I love how the one Raisin's nose glows red! And don't they go ice skating later in the show?
- Charlie Brown Christmas: Probably the most famous Christmas special. I love the Charlie Brown Christmas tree. The Christmas message of the show and how it is conveyed is also really well done. For once, Charlie Brown is liked and loved. And the music!
- A Muppet Family Christmas: There have been several Muppet Christmas movies and specials over the year, but this one is my favorite. Very charming and festive! I love how the Swedish chef wants to cook Big Bird.
- Frosty the Snowman: This special is super entertaining. Frosty is friendly and funny and Karen is just a sweetie! She's so cute when she is cold on the train and her teeth are chattering. And, just like Frosty, Christmas will return every year!
- Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer: Not a favorite. I feel so badly for little Rudolph, who keeps getting made fun of. The voice of Rudolph really drives me crazy (more so than Garfield!), though- its so whiny! Although I love the roly poly snowman narrator! And the cute little forest animals!!
October 18, 2009
Experimenting with Pumpkin Cinnamon Vodka Drink #3: Pumpkin Amaretto Martini
October 17, 2009
Jazzy Christmas Carols
October 16, 2009
Food Recipe: Puppy Chow

- 12 oz bag of chocolate chips (this is where its fun to experiment with all the different kinds of chocolate chips available. White chocolate chips are a good alternative to the regular)
- 1 stick margarine
- 1 cup smooth peanut butter
- 1 box Crispix cereal
- 1 1-pound bag powdered sugar
October 15, 2009
Experimenting with Pumpkin Cinnamon Vodka Drink #2: Pumpkin Cinnamon Cream

October 14, 2009
Poll: Lights on the Christmas Tree- Color or White?
As I prepare to decorate my Christmas tree, today’s poll focuses on the use of lights on your tree. Specifically, do you prefer trees that are covered only in white lights or do you like multi-colored strands? The argument for each:
WHITE LIGHTS: There is something simple and classy about Christmas trees with white lights. The look is so clean and beautiful, and it really lets your ornaments and decorations stand out. I also benefit because my tree (yes, its fake!) is already pre-lit with white lights. No extra work necessary. Some cons- using just white lights can be a little boring. And its definitely loses some color and sparkle.
MULTI-COLORED LIGHTS: Colored lights on a Christmas tree are super festive. They are bright and fun and really exemplify the season. One of my favorite things to do once my tree is up is sit on my couch and stare at the tree, listening to Christmas music. And the colored lights add patterns and hues- perfect for relaxing. As for issues with colored lights- I think its easier to notice burnt-out bulbs on colored strands. Also, depending on your aesthetic, colored lights may not coordinate with your room.
VERDICT: I couldn’t really think of cons for either option. As I mentioned, my tree is pre-lit with white lights. But I also add strands of colored lights on top of the white. The more lights the better! It’s the best of both worlds!
Do you use white or multi-colored lights on your tree? Why do you use one over the other?
October 13, 2009
Odds and Ends
- The Rockefeller Center ice skating rink opened yesterday. I've been to New York to see the rink several times, but have never actually skated. Each time I've been at the rink the line was so incredibly long, I couldn't justify waiting. And those who know me will definitely vouch that I am not patient enough to wait in a long line! Have you ever skated on the ice rink?
- Several parts of the US are seeing their first snow of the season. I'm jealous! I LOVE snow! As long as I don't need to drive in it (to me its worth taking a vacation day to stay home and enjoy!)...I just don't get enough of it where I live- only one snowstorm left me with snow on the ground last year.
- I already have the first item to add to my 2009 Christmas list! Stay tuned for the full list coming sometime in November. In the meantime, what are you hoping to receive from Santa this year? I need some more ideas!
- Today, Mannheim Steamroller releases a 25th Anniversary CD, which is a compilation of favorite songs from previous Christmas albums. Also, apparently David Archuleta (of American Idol fame) is releasing a Christmas album today and also setting out on a Christmas concert tour. Can't say I am attending (and he isn't playing near me anyway)- but is anyone else? If so, give us an update...Tran-Siberian Orchestra has also announced their 2009 concert dates. I am always tempted to go, but never have. Give me your thoughts- should I or not?! $25 doesn't seem too bad to check it out.
- While they have yet to preview the rest of their Christmas collection, Crate and Barrel is now selling 2009 Christmas ornaments. C&B always has great ornaments, but best to wait until after Christmas (when they are 50% off!) to buy. I do love the Puzzle Ball ornament, though.
October 12, 2009
Experimenting with Pumpkin Cinnamon Vodka Drink #1: Pumpkin Pie Martini

October 11, 2009
Christmas Store Review - The Christmas Attic, Alexandria, VA
October 10, 2009
Pumpkin Cinnamon Vodka
Now, on to the taste test- I am pleasantly surprised! Cinnamon is still the main taste you notice, but the pumpkin has definitely mellowed it out. While I am not sure I can taste the pumpkin per se, the vodka does have more depth of flavor. Its actually pretty tasty just to sip.
So my conclusion? Since I am testing two bottles, I plan to let one sit another week. Meanwhile, I'm going to try a few recipes with the second bottle. Stay tuned for some drink recipes involving cinnamon pumpkin vodka!
October 9, 2009
Christmas Birthdays
"This gift is your birthday and Christmas present combined!" DECODED: "I didn't want to waste the time and effort to find you two gifts." This is the prime offender. If you would give a gift to your family member/friend for both Christmas and his or her birthday, don't combine the gifts into one. This is particularly true when gifting children. It dimishes the feeling that your birthday is special (arguable the main point of birthdays!) and comes across that you didnt want to put in the time and effort to find another gift.- "I'm sorry I forgot your birthday, I was busy with the holidays!" DECODED: "I was busy having fun and going to parties that were more important/special than your celebration!" Put the celebrant's birthday on your calendar! A happy birthday phone call takes maybe 5 minutes out of your day? Better yet, just drop a birthday card in the mail when you send of your Christmas cards!
- "We just saw everyone at Christmas" DECODED: "Your birthday is pushing us over my family/friend reunion limit!" Birthdays are completely about the birthday kid. Its a good mantra to repeat when dealing with birthdays. Any comments that smack of burden because of a birthday celebration are unnecessary and selfish. Next time the birthday girl or guy will be wishing you had actually forgotten their birthday instead!
October 8, 2009
Christmas at the Theater - Buy Tickets Now!
Its the perfect time to book your tickets to shows in which you are interested. Wait too much longer and the best (or all!) the tickets may be gone.
Also, keep in mind, if you are like me, you are spending your holidays in multiple locations while visiting friends and family. Its worthwhile to also check out the performance schedule in all locations- you never know if you have the opportunity to attend a new or different performance not playing at home.
Finally, depending on your recipient and their likes and dislikes, tickets to a performance may be a great holiday gift. One year, as a Christmas present, I took my family to see Cats for the first time for all of us. It definitely was a memorable gift!
As for me, I have my eye on a performance of favorite holiday songs by jazz pianists. And a stage production of one of my favorite Christmas movies, White Christmas.
Are you planning on attending any holiday performances at your local theater? Any shows that you have seen that can't be missed?
October 7, 2009
Poll: Top Christmas Songs
- White Christmas – Otis Redding. Okay, maybe I am biased because of this song’s prominence in the best movie ever, Love Actually. But this song is the perfect example of how Christmas songs can be great love songs. Or at least help you relax after a long day at work. With a glass of wine. While not quite making the list, I put “O Little Town of Bethlehem” by Elvis Presley and “When my Heart Finds Christmas” by Harry Connick Jr. in this same category.
- Joy to the World – Frank Sinatra. I admit, I always have my iPod turned up, and when the trumpets sound at the beginning of this song, it nearly blows out my eardrums. But wow, how can you not get pepped up for Christmas? In this same category, I put “Winter Wonderland” by Bing Crosby. Not as famous and thus, not as appreciated as, “White Christmas.” But its so jazzy! It just makes you feel great!
- Have Your Self a Merry Little Christmas – Frank Sinatra. Where “Joy to the World” was all bombastic, this song is wistful and heartfelt. When you listen, how can you not reminisce in your good memories and long for a better year ahead? I think I fall in love every time I hear Frank sing the first few lines. “I’ll be Home for Christmas” by Bing Crosby and “Merry Christmas Darling” by the Carpenters are other songs that makes me dreamy.
- Sleigh Ride – Boston Pops. It doesn’t so much matter who plays it, as long as it DOES NOT include lyrics. And it CANNOT have a recording of a horse neigh at the end; it has to be part of the orchestra. I cannot stress this enough. Otherwise, it is NOT the real thing. I feel very strongly about this!
- Home for the Holidays – Perry Como. To me, this song totally exemplifies all my Christmas experiences. When I hear it, I picture driving to my relatives’ as a little girl. Friends, aunts, uncles, arriving at my parents’ for the holidays. Me flying home for Christmas. All in a little picturesque vision. Doesn’t Perry have the best voice ever?
October 6, 2009
2009 Holiday Sales Forecast
October 5, 2009
Target Displaying Christmas Products
I was at Target this past weekend and noticed the store was starting to display Christmas items- albeit not many. Yet. Some of the more prominent items on display were tablecloths and napkins (shiny red and green with poinsettias) and large red, green, and gold ball decorations.
But most interesting was a large shelf full of nutcrackers. There were over 20 different versions- everything from soldiers to pirates to baseball players. They were really unique- and cheap too at $12.99. The nutcrackers are a good size too- about a foot tall. Its an interesting decision by Target to put these out so early, when very little other holiday items are available. But other than being nutcrackers, the figurines aren't Christmas-specific; you could display them at any time. I think the unique characters will be a big seller!
October 4, 2009
Christmas at Sur la Table
October 3, 2009
Infusing Cinnamon Vodka with Pumpkin
So hopefully you are following my attempt at infusing vodka with cinnamon. Now that the vodka seems cinnamon-y enough, I want to add pumpkin. Maybe its more Thanksgiving than Christmas, but if it turns out well, it will make some nice winter drinks.
- The pumpkin (obviously) displaces vodka. So it helps to have another empty bottle or container handy for the extra.
- You don't need very much pumpkin at all- so if you have other pumpkin recipes, now is the time to pull them out!
- As you can see from my picture, I left the cinnamon stick in the bottle. I am not sure if this is a good idea or not. Will the cinnamon overwhelm any pumpkin flavor? Its too late now, but I wish I saved some pumpkin- I'd try and infuse plain vodka with the pumpkin to compare. Hmm...maybe I still will!
October 2, 2009
Infusing Cinnamon Vodka- Week Two Update

October 1, 2009
Real Christmas Tree vs. Fake Christmas Tree
The Christmas tree debate is often all about circumstance. What type of tree is most convenient and available to you? How much effort do you put into your decorations and Christmas theme? Or maybe that is all simplistic? That’s why, today, Sassy Snowflake is going to debate one of those great Christmas arguments- real tree or fake?
FAKE CHRISTMAS TREE: I know, its inexcusable. I use a fake Christmas tree. So let me explain why. And then everyone can tell me how lame my excuses are!
- I own a little compact car. And I can barely open the trunk, much less tie a 6-foot tree to our roof. And even if I tried, I am not sure I would trust my efforts.
- I travel a lot, even during the holiday season. Live trees need a lot of water- I don’t want to come home to a dead tree.
- Live Christmas trees are available a lot later than when I plan to decorate. As I mentioned previously, I plan to decorate on October 4 (yikes thats this weekend! Okay, maybe not October 4...). The Christmas tree lots and forests aren’t exactly open before Halloween…
- My pre-lit tree is great. Its easy to set up and, while I add more lights to the tree anyway, the existing lights add a nice touch.
- Fake trees can be cheap. Notice I say “can be.” If you wait and buy a tree after the holidays are over, you can get great deals. Even if you buy a fake tree during the height of the holiday season, if you use it year after year, it becomes a great value.
- A lot less set-up clean-up. Yes, you do have to pack your tree for storage, but there are no pesky needles that keep falling (and that your cat wants to keep eating!) or sap sticking your fingers.
LIVE CHRISTMAS TREE: Growing up, I would say about half the time we had a live tree, and the other half a fake one. So I am definitely familiar with the pros and cons of a live tree.
- Nothing smells better than a real tree. Who cares about pine-smelling candles when you have the real thing?
- Storage issues. One bad thing about my fake tree is the amount of storage it takes up when its not displayed. With a real tree, you don’t have that issue. Recycle it and your attic or storage bin is free.
- Every year you get to pick your perfect tree. Your aesthetic may change from year to year or it may not, but at least you have the choice to get the tree of your dreams!
- The whole experience of buying your tree. If you get a fake tree, every couple of years you will trek to the closest Wal-Mart or Target and pick the cheapest, prettiest tree you can afford. When buying a real tree, you bundle up and spend time outside, in the cold, drinking hot chocolate (if you pick the right lot/forest!), and sing Christmas carols going and coming (hopefully!). A true Christmas experience!
- The cost for most live trees go to a good cause. Whether you buy a tree from the lot in the corner of the parking lot (money often going to a local school or other charity group) or a Christmas forest (money going to the planting and care of other trees), you can feel good that your purchase is also helping others during the holiday season.
FINAL DECISION: Maybe it all does come down to convenience and what tree is best for you at that point in time. While I made less points for a live tree than a fake one, I think I would give up my fake one for a live one any time (okay, maybe I would ADD a real tree to the fake one). But I don’t think using a fake tree makes me or my home any less Christmas-y.
What are your thoughts? Do you have a real or fake Christmas tree? Did I forget any pros or cons for each type of tree?




